Have been neglecting this journal a little bit. Trying to settle into a new job has been eating up my time. (Yes, I got the job.) I did manage to have a date with Tont the other night, though. Sweet. He's transitioning (F2M, though he never really appeared that female to me), and is seeming so much more happy in his skin. Plus, he's in love. Both things are making him way different in demeanour; he glows, he walks with a swagger, he's got a calm happiness about him. And he's packing on muscle like a sonofabitch! Yum. He's also a lot more forthcoming about his feelings, sensations and desires than he used to be. it's way easier to talk to him. So I asked him a lot of questions, things I had been dying to know when he and I were seeing each other, but that he hadn't been willing to tell me. He's getting into kink a little, thinks he may be a bottom who's a bit switchy. I had to smile at that, cause so am I. Probably explains a little bit why he and I haven't found an easy pattern of sex play between us (the not talking used to get in the way, too, but that wasn't a problem the other night). Looks like he and I might be more similar in our tastes than complementary. Didn't stop us from having fun, though. I was way curious about his developing body, and bless him, he let me explore it to my heart's content.